May 11, 2012
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♫♪ My theme song for today is, “I Want You” by Kandi of
Xscape♫♪
It’s finally Friday blog readers and I hope everyone is starting the weekend in an amazing and fun yet safe way. I cannot wait to see what the weekend brings my way. So I think by now everyone knows my favorite place in the world is [The Library] because I am always announcing it on Twitter if you follow me (@nicoleafterjana). I started reading Dr. Phil’s book,“Self Matters: Creating Your Life From the Inside Out” this book is so truthful and inspiring. I am now on Chapter 3 so as I continue in the book I will write an update every day.
For chapter 1 and chapter 2, Dr. Phil talks about doing what YOU want to do and living the life that YOU want to live and not living it for others because when we do that we become miserable. It’s like are we living or just existing.
Everyone wants to live and some people just go through the motions; and that’s
not living at ALL. If you are going through the motions, you are just selling
yourself short and not living with passion and fire of what you desire the most.
Don’t be controlled by what is expected of you. Ask yourself, Is what you doing everyday what you’re living for? Are you fulfilling your purpose for being on this earth? Once you stop living that incongruent life and start to hear your own voice, your own needs, your experience of life will change monumentally. Don’t allow room for fear and anxiety. Do not fear living the life you want. It is you that matters at the end of the day and that is not being said in a selfish way but in a confident way. GO AFTER WHAT YOU WANT. “If you have no purpose, you have no passion. If you have no passion, you have sold yourself out”
Within all of us there are passions that, if acknowledged and released, will energize and excite the experience of life. There is a whole other level of existence, distinct from what you do that is the real you and the substance of who you are. It is your authentic self. Your authentic self is the person that can be found at your absolute core. The person you were made to be and want to be that doesn’t cater to anyone else or pays attention to the next persons thoughts because it does not matter. It’s about you. I promise if you get this book and just from reading the first two chapters you will not be able to put it down especially if your looking for a change and want the life that you can create and have. Time is everything so I suggest you get on it. I know some people that are in their late 20’s early 30’s who have done NOTHING with their life and just talk about what they are going to do thinking something is going to eventually fly down from the sky and say, “Hey I am going to give you everything you want and you don’t have to work one day for
it because you’re not even doing that now.” Well, life does not work like that.
Or those family members who think that one talented {individual} in their family
who has passion for their gift and plans on making it big one day is going to
look out for them. It definitely does not work that way either. Have your own
success and find what you want to do instead of waiting on the next person or
being a copycat and fictional person. It’s not being sarcastic or anything
because I’ll tell you right now if my books become best sellers and turn into
movies . I leave with this: “Unlock your true passion, strengths, gifts,
and talents.” Trust me it is possible. I definitely don’t want to be like some people at the age of 28 or 30 living at home with my mom wasting time or tweeting on twitter or updating a Facebook yet I am not doing anything in my own life. I am talking about the real world not the computer life. Get busy living life.
One love,
Jana Nicole
♥♥♥
♫♪ My theme song for today is, “I Want You” by Kandi of
Xscape♫♪
It’s finally Friday blog readers and I hope everyone is starting the weekend in an amazing and fun yet safe way. I cannot wait to see what the weekend brings my way. So I think by now everyone knows my favorite place in the world is [The Library] because I am always announcing it on Twitter if you follow me (@nicoleafterjana). I started reading Dr. Phil’s book,“Self Matters: Creating Your Life From the Inside Out” this book is so truthful and inspiring. I am now on Chapter 3 so as I continue in the book I will write an update every day.
For chapter 1 and chapter 2, Dr. Phil talks about doing what YOU want to do and living the life that YOU want to live and not living it for others because when we do that we become miserable. It’s like are we living or just existing.
Everyone wants to live and some people just go through the motions; and that’s
not living at ALL. If you are going through the motions, you are just selling
yourself short and not living with passion and fire of what you desire the most.
Don’t be controlled by what is expected of you. Ask yourself, Is what you doing everyday what you’re living for? Are you fulfilling your purpose for being on this earth? Once you stop living that incongruent life and start to hear your own voice, your own needs, your experience of life will change monumentally. Don’t allow room for fear and anxiety. Do not fear living the life you want. It is you that matters at the end of the day and that is not being said in a selfish way but in a confident way. GO AFTER WHAT YOU WANT. “If you have no purpose, you have no passion. If you have no passion, you have sold yourself out”
Within all of us there are passions that, if acknowledged and released, will energize and excite the experience of life. There is a whole other level of existence, distinct from what you do that is the real you and the substance of who you are. It is your authentic self. Your authentic self is the person that can be found at your absolute core. The person you were made to be and want to be that doesn’t cater to anyone else or pays attention to the next persons thoughts because it does not matter. It’s about you. I promise if you get this book and just from reading the first two chapters you will not be able to put it down especially if your looking for a change and want the life that you can create and have. Time is everything so I suggest you get on it. I know some people that are in their late 20’s early 30’s who have done NOTHING with their life and just talk about what they are going to do thinking something is going to eventually fly down from the sky and say, “Hey I am going to give you everything you want and you don’t have to work one day for
it because you’re not even doing that now.” Well, life does not work like that.
Or those family members who think that one talented {individual} in their family
who has passion for their gift and plans on making it big one day is going to
look out for them. It definitely does not work that way either. Have your own
success and find what you want to do instead of waiting on the next person or
being a copycat and fictional person. It’s not being sarcastic or anything
because I’ll tell you right now if my books become best sellers and turn into
movies . I leave with this: “Unlock your true passion, strengths, gifts,
and talents.” Trust me it is possible. I definitely don’t want to be like some people at the age of 28 or 30 living at home with my mom wasting time or tweeting on twitter or updating a Facebook yet I am not doing anything in my own life. I am talking about the real world not the computer life. Get busy living life.
One love,
Jana Nicole
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